"When choosing to become a parent, you are choosing to forever go through life with your heart walking around outside your body"
I earnestly believe this is the case...I never knew the extent to which I could love or care for any one person or fear so much for their well being until I became a parent myself. And for the record, it is one of the few choices in my life that I have never regretted and I would not change it for anything else in the world. Each one of my kids, let alone all 4, are worth more than that to me...(still hoping for more if my biological clock permits me.)
Hahaha.....a not so 'perfect' picture of my 4 jewels here...
To me, parenting is a compromise. All parents start out with incredibly idealistic expectations but as tension and tiredness take their toll, we tend to lower out sights to more of the middle road position, a state of equilibrium. It is not for others to criticise and compare but for parents themselves to feel what is the right way to bring up their children as any. If you love your children, enjoy them and do what feels right for you; noone can do better.
3 comments:
OMG! I have not seen any of your kids b4 as you weren't having kids then but Daren really looks like Uncle Lim junior version.
Sorri not so used to blogs and stuff. I am Jieyi.
It's ok Jie Yi. Thanks for patronizing my blog :)
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